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| Three days old : October 6, 2002 | ||
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Wait, so I got squeezed through WHERE?? "pushpushpushpush!" said Dr. Wittman. "keepgoingkeepgoing" said the nurses. "...five...six....seven..." counted Robt. So I went with the epidural, though it did wear off on my left side right when I went from 5 centimeters dilated to 10 and 100% effaced in about 1 hour. Yeowch. The anesthesiologist was called back in and she fixed me up real good. I went through some 10 or so really really intense contractions before she was able to though. I remember thinking "if this is what it's like now... oh geez... will I be able to take it to the end?" I described it as having a great dane take a mouthful of the side of your belly, squeezing its jaws shut, then and yanking your flesh (muscle and all) left and right for like a minute before letting go and repeating the process like every two minutes. That or having a burst appendix maybe (I'd never gotten my appendix taken out.) My right side got a double dose of numbness, though, and my right leg kept falling off the birthing bed afterwards. My hips hurt. Hey, my knees hurt. Speaking of pain, this reminds me: BE NICE TO YOUR MOM Whether or not your mom (or your wife, the mother of your kids) got knocked out, got a local, got some narcotic anelgesics, or an epidural. She went through huge hormonal changes, suffered through lack of sleep, somehow endured the *contractions*, and then on top it all, having those *afterpains*. It took me over two weeks to be able to sit again, but only when I've taken some pain medication. It doesn't stop there! There's also breastfeeding... Another set of aches and pains. (I've yet to see how long I'll be able to keep it up.) And then there's the worrying and perhaps all sorts of emotional pain... Well, anyways, so the above three pictures are from October, 6; three days after Eagan was born. At some point in those three days, both Robt and I each had an episode of "I think I'm gonna die." -- from stress or nerves, lack of sleep, lack of food (who had time to fix something to eat??) and the pain. I can't tell you how often both of us would wake up to make sure nothing's happened to our new son. I still would wake up now and then to make sure he's still breathing. Although our little boy's been pronounced extremely healthy and has done remarkable since he got out, we've still got new-parents-syndrome. We worry, we fret, and we watch "EaganTV" -- what else could be more fascinating than watching this precious new life? It's even more interesting that Eagan sort of "talks" in his sleep. Heehee. There're also photos of Eagan the day after he was born -- not even 24 hours old over at Growing Families Online. |
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